Martyr by cop

If a gang of vicious pit bulls surround you,
and start barking out commands at you—
what are you going to do?

You know they’re going to bite you,
and if you let them maul you—
you’ll probably end up dead too.

So your brain tells you to run,
because if the berserkers gets a hold of you, you’re done,
so your body resists, and they shoot you with their taser gun.

So you called out to your mother,
because nobody wanted to be your brother.
Judged to be sub-human—they hunted you down;
another statistic, deserving of a beat down.

He was running home, crying for his mama, but when he arrived, he was in heaven!

And just like you were afraid for your life,
the republican is also afraid for his children and wife,
and has sold his soul to the union,
so that in his house, there is no strife.

So whatever happened—the fault was yours—for not complying,
because the political leaders are afraid to lose the ‘protections’,
regardless of the price you’re paying;
so they transfer your civil-rights to the ’emotional blackmailers’
and the enforcers of their racketeering.

In the end the mom laments: My son was born for this sole purpose, to bring to light the darkness in the hearts of men.

By: ElRoyPoet © 2023

The Science Of Fear: The intimidation tactics used by a bully cause the victim to experience trauma. This syndrome is divided into the alarm reaction stage, resistance stage, and exhaustion stage. The alarm reaction stage refers to the initial symptoms of the body under acute stress and the “fight or flight” response.

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In police treatment of Tyre Nichols, an inability to see the human being in front of them

Harry Litman: Nichols footage, ‘over twice as long’ as Rodney King, will feel like ‘an eternity’

TYT Reacts to Updates on Tyre Nichols Story

Let’s talk about a cop asking me for training

Top 6 viewer comments:

  1. Cops don’t stop crimes. They enforce compliance on the people capitalist society wants controlled. And that’s what cops are trained to do, to make the people, society wants to be under control, to be dominated. And to be under their physical control immediately or else. Poor people must fear the authorities in society, this is how the elites deter revolt by the masses. I watched the body and dash cam videos and what I saw was inhumane. And before anyone comes at me with he should’ve complied. The cops never gave him a chance to comply. As soon as the first cop got to his car he started making threats of shooting Tyre before he snatched him out of the car and started beating him. This was the initial aggression by the white cop who tased Tyre. He was made to look like a fool, because he was incompetent in detaining Tyre, when Tyre ran away from him. He escalated the traffic stop by getting the scorpion unit to chase Tyre. He was over heard saying: “I hope they stomp his ass”. The black police were just showing up for this white cop. If it weren’t for the cameras, we would’ve never know.
  2. Clearly, these cops evidenced themselves as bullies who love to beat the citizens they have contempt for! We have a great deal to fear from cops who can seriously hurt you over a disputed turn signal. Naturally, they love the ‘power rush’ of Qualified Immunity lawlessness with impunity and the GUN, that makes ’em GOD-Iike, able to decide who lives and who dies and everything else in between. Now within any gang, including police’ there’s always a struggle to see who’s ‘King Bad’, the baddest of them all, the leader of the gang. Cops’ mindset: “Us cops against Them citizens” and you’ll have cops abusing citizens, violating their civil rights, simply because citizens-taxpayers ask a question like, “why did you stop me?”. It’s as if questioning police ‘Contempt of Cop’, bruises their egos, violates their, power-drunken megalomaniac authority.
  3. There is one reason why no other cops stepped in to stop the others. It’s called THE BLUE WALL. No cop is gonna interfere with another cop because they fear they will be looked at like a snitch would be in the mafia. It’s been this way for decades. You step in and get another cop in trouble, you’re gonna wish you were never born. You would probably have to leave the police force, it would get so bad for you. That’s why cops don’t interfere. Its disgusting but its true. It is not training, too many, tolerate this! It’s their PERSONALITY not the training. Remember the female cop that pulled her SUPERIOR to stop him from pepper spraying someone who was already arrested, in the parole car and handcuffed. She pulled him away and he pushed her and put her in a CHOKE HOLD. There were several male cops present and they just stood around while the female cop was in a choke hold by her boss! It’s their PERSONALITY.
  4. These officers probably fell into mob mentality. People often behave differently in social groups than when by oneself alone. Mob mentality often react emotionally, while when a person is alone, they can be more rational. It takes a very strong willed person to oppose the current of a mob, because opposing the current often gets you killed. It’s easier and safer to just go with the current and follow the direction of the mob mentality. No one wants to be seen as a coward, even though it’s actually the opposite, all of them are cowards for abusing and killing because of what others think. You can not claim temporary insanity or road rage. If you have the genetic capability to let common sense go and do atrocious things that give you pleasure, you can not claim you are no longer able to apply the breaks because the governor in your brain is not willing. All it means, is that you’re willing to forfeit your life and the lives of others just so that you can experience that high, buzz or adrenaline rush, whatever, right now. They did it because they enjoyed it. They went looking for him with the intent to punish him for fleeing. To beat him to a pulp. They are sadistic evil thugs. Their failure to render aid shows they lack any realization that this was another human being who was badly injured.
  5. It’s power. When a frustrated and upset person gains power over someone weaker, sometimes maliciousness intent can come forth. Think of all the times, a bullied person has gotten an opportunity to redirect their anger on someone else who they have more power over. I’d argue many spouse abusers are guilty of this historically. I suspect that Tyre may have done some disrespectful thing to upset the cops, but we must expect better from those who we give permission to have a monopoly of violence in order to protect the public. Police bear a lot of responsibility while they carry deadly force and must show restraint unless an imminent threat to the public is suspected. Being disrespected should not allow someone to be judge, jury, and executioner.
  6. “Black policemen were another matter. We used to say, “If you just must call a policeman”—for we hardly ever did—“for god’s sake, try to make sure it’s a White one.” A Black policeman could completely demolish you. He knew far more about you than a White policeman could and you were without defenses before this Black brother in uniform whose entire reason for breathing seemed to be his hope to offer proof that though he was Black, he was not Black like you.” By: James Baldwin Black cops seeking Whites validation and acceptance commit the most heinous crime against black folks to gain White Supremacy acceptance. That cop crew is public enemy! These black cops thought they could get away with this like every other White cop does. WRONG! They just made it clear that only White cops have immunity. Black cops don’t.

Commentaries: The point of diversifying the police ranks with different nationalities is strictly for the white cop’s benefit, so that they won’t be so racist anymore. However, this integration experiment failed, because systemic racism is already ingrained into the institution. Now what we have to contend with is a behind the scenes class order, with minorities representing the lower echelons of authority and only tolerated as token police with no real power. The consequences are that these black cops have a chip on their shoulder due to the stigma they now encounter from their former black communities, and because they are also obliged to prove to their superiors that they are worthy to wear the badge.

It is possible to get away with murder, if you kill the people whose lives are already dead to a capitalist society. If only the state can be sovereign, then the citizen must be dispensable. That being the case, it is permissible to remove the misfits who are not in step with the goals of the ultra-nationalist state. The progression of tyranny is to first eliminate the enemy of the state, second the burden to the state, third those who are not benefiting the state. For this to transpire, all that is required is for the heads of police departments, to give the marching orders.

“Everything in the State, nothing outside the State, nothing against the State.” By: Benito Mussolini

“The Party seeks power entirely for its own sake. We are not interested in the good of others; we are interested solely in power. We know that no one ever seizes power with the intention of relinquishing it. Power is not a means, it is an end. The object of power is power.” Excerpts from “1984: by: George Orwell

“Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad men, even when they exercise influence and not authority. There is no worse heresy than that the office sanctifies the holder of it.” By: John Dalberg-Acton

“The exercise of freedom will always create rebels, because that’s the origin of revolutions. We can’t have a sedentary society, just like we can’t have a perfect union. If you don’t want conflict in your family, church and state, you want fascism, and if that’s what you want, you don’t want democracy.” By: A. Freeman

“Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they’re separated, man is no more.” By: Nikola Tesla

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Excerpt from “Battle Cry” by: Jason Wilson

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly.” By: Martin Luther King

“Until men desire to control their own passions, evil has rooted itself in their hearts and darkness will rise again.” By: Jaime Buckley

“Woke and cancel culture are both signs of a judgmental culture, not a mentally mature one. A world where you cannot even speak to another person without worrying about what they are going to think of you, has not advanced much from the days when the white people used to own slaves. Let me tell you this, if you are kind, if you are compassionate, if you hold no discrimination towards people whatsoever, then you have no reason to worry about whether you are woke enough.” By: Abhijit Naskar

“You already know enough. So do I. It is not knowledge we lack. What is missing is the courage to understand what we know and to draw conclusions.” By: Sven Lindqvist

A Man Of Purpose

Survey says—in order for the human male to be content with his life—he needs the following attributes:

1. Be gainfully employed.
2. Be in good physical shape.
3. Possess a capable mind.
4. Earn a livable wage.
5. Be over 50 years of age.
6. Be in a rewarding relationship.

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Statistics: The strongest predictor of men’s happiness and well-being is their job satisfaction, by a large margin—and the strongest predictor of job satisfaction is whether men feel they are making an impact on their companies’ success. This measure, the study finds, is influenced by whether men feel they are using their own unique talents at work, whether they are surrounded by a diverse set of perspectives, how easily and often they can chat with co-workers, whether they feel their opinions are valued, and whether they’re inspired by the people they work with. Men who have high job satisfaction are highly likely to be content in other aspects of their life. Men at work are more likely to be men at ease with themselves. Everything else—contentment at home, in relationships and friendships—flows down from men being satisfied at work.

Commentary: In other words, self-esteem is determined by whether you are gainfully employed or having to depend on others for support, ie: family handouts, government welfare, church charity. When a man is under-employed or jobless, he tends to drift into a downward spiral of crime—addictions and predatory behavior. Bottom line men need to earn and pay their own way.

“People are mistaken when they feel their lives are meaningless. The error is based on their failure to recognize what does matter, instead of becoming overly focused on what they believe is missing from their existence.” By: Iddo Landau

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” By: Viktor Frankl

“Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they are separated, man is no more” By: Nikola Tesla

“The world has enough for everyone’s need, but not enough for everyone’s greed.” By: Mahatma Gandhi

“The righteous care about justice for the poor, but evil men have no such concern. Where there is no vision, the people perish, but happy is he who keeps the law.” Bible, Proverbs 29:7,18

Looking For Love

When I saw her, walk into the room,
I knew, I needed her.
I tell myself, leave her alone,
She’ll only, break your heart.

But I’m a man, and I’m alone,
I need someone to hold,
And call my own.

I know, I should’ve,
Learned by now.
But when I see her smile,
My heart melts.
Please don’t leave too soon.

When I saw her, walk into the room,
I knew, I needed her.
I tell myself, leave her alone,
She’ll only, break your heart.

But I’m a man, what can I do,
When I see someone,
As beautiful as you?

I know I should’ve,
Learned by now.
But when I hear your voice,
My heart melts.
Please don’t leave too soon.

By: ElRoyPoet © 1998

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Why So Many Women Are Single (Men Don’t Want Relationships?)

Commentary: When you love somebody, you receive joy by giving tangible gifts to your loved one. The only way to make human interactions is through fiscal transactions. However, if you become broke, you can’t give anything of value anymore—so what can you do, to let your loved ones know—you’re thinking about them? You could offer them your time, but after a while, you’d become annoying and nobody would want you around, especially if you have your own opinions. In the end your heart would have to move on, along with your love for them, causing your heart to become jaded, because it was only being used for gain.

“I used to believe in me, but that was before I could see, that it didn’t matter, unless you also believed, in me.” By: ElRoyPoet

“One of the problems is that a lot of toxic relationship habits are baked into our culture. We worship romantic love—you know, that dizzying and irrational kind. Men and women are encouraged to objectify each other and to objectify their romantic relationships. Thus, our partners are often seen as achievements or prizes rather than someone to share mutual emotional support.” Excerpts from 6 Toxic Relationship Habits Most People Think Are Normal

“Why is it, that you can’t make yourself happy, but you still believe, somebody else can; even if it’s a lie, and even if it’s just for a little while?” By: ElRoyPoet

“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Bible, Proverbs 31:10-13

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” 2 Corinthians 6:14

“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18

Love Hurts

Love is a broad, broad word.
I was caught up in the moment!
I didn’t really mean to hurt anyone?
And besides, now you know,
That it wasn’t going to work out.
This follows me around,
And there’s nothing, I can do about it.
All I can speak on, is my truth.

Spanish Translation

El amor es una palabra amplia, muy amplia.
¡Estaba atrapado en el momento!
¿Realmente no quise lastimar a nadie?
Y además, ahora ya sabes,
Que no iba a funcionar.
¡Esto me sigue, siempre!
Y no hay nada que puedo hacer al respecto.
Lo único que puedo decir, es que esta es mi realidad.

Traducido Por: ElRoyPoet, 2019

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6 Reasons Why People Leave The One They Love—When They

  1. Don’t feel respected.
  2. Don’t feel emotionally supported.
  3. Lack non-sexual physical intimacy.
  4. Don’t feel adequate.
  5. Don’t feel listened to.
  6. Don’t feel like they’re in a committed relationship.

Top 3 viewer comments:

  1. “I’ve been in six total relationships and all of them were short lived. While this helped me to grasp a better idea of why people leave me so early, I still feel like I did fine with them and it’s confusing. I get paranoid that they have reasons that they aren’t telling me and it leads to distrust in all of my relationships, platonic or romantic. I can’t tell if it changed me for better or worse, or if I just haven’t found my someone special yet. Having irrational fears of being left alone is depressing because I can’t explain what happened or why I’m getting so worked up over it. There are times when I worry so much about my friends not liking me that I simply act on impulse and say dumb things. More often then not, it’s hard to explain to people how heartbreak can change a person. I’m making an effort to return to a better, more whole version of me, although progress is difficult.
  2. When you’re married, you really can’t leave except for a very few reasons and they need to be big. It needs to be something like domestic assault, adultery, or illegal activity. If you’re not married yet, then you can leave for smaller reasons. But marriage is supposed to be something sacred. You really got to think long and hard before making those lifelong vows, particularly the part about for better or worse. If your partner starts getting to the point where you’re carrying too much of the load, you have to verbally confront them on it, and if they leave because they didn’t like that confrontation, at least it’s not your fault.
  3. I have one major issue with this video, namely the “emotional connection” part. The problem I have, is that people forget oxytocin stops producing after so long and that feeling of “being in love” is no longer there. This is where it is up to that person to remind themselves what the core components of the person they loved are and to CHOOSE to love them still. Love is odd, it starts out as a sensation, evolves to a choice, then becomes a sensation again. Getting married is supposed to say “I know there’s going to be a point where I question this, but as long as we don’t cheat or beat on each other, we can work it out”. If you know that you can be open with your emotions with others, but NOT with the person that you love, that’s a big problem that you need to address sooner than later. Don’t be ashamed of whether or not you feel wide open with someone. What’s important is that you both feel, not only safe with one another, but brave. Cognitive empathy over emotional. Needing each other is not ‘toxic’, but necessary. This is the best checklist you’ll ever get for romantic relationships.

Commentary: The hardest lesson every young adult has to learn is that they are not the main character in everybody’s story. You are the protagonist of your own story, and all things considered, you were the main character in your enabling parent’s story, but now that you’ve grown up, you’re not. So no matter how much you want to be the main character in somebody’s story, your only fooling yourself, because until you are in a legitimate, committed family relationship, your wishful thinking doesn’t really matter to anybody.

Why rejection hurts, the truth about women | Jordan Peterson

“Fearlessness is what love seeks,” Hannah Arendt wrote in her magnificent early work on love and how to live with fear. “Such fearlessness exists only in the complete calm that can no longer be shaken by events expected of the future […] Hence the only valid tense is the present, the Now.”
This notion of presence as the antidote to fear and the crucible of love is as old as the human heart, as old as the consciousness that first felt the blade of anticipatory loss pressed against the exposed underbelly of the longing for connection. Excerpt from The Four Buddhist Mantras for Turning Fear into Love

“To love without knowing how to love, wounds the person we love. To know how to love someone, we have to understand them. To understand, we need to listen […] Understanding someone’s suffering is the best gift you can give another person. Understanding is love’s other name. If you don’t understand, you can’t love!” Excerpts from “To love without knowing how to love wounds the person we love.”

“Who is good, if he knows not who he is? And who knows what he is, if he forgets that things which have been made are perishable, and that it is not possible for one human being to be with another always?” Excerpt from Epictetus on Love and Loss: The Stoic Strategy for Surviving Heartbreak

“Sensuality often hastens the ‘Growth of Love’ so much that the roots remain weak and are easily torn up.” By: Friedrich Nietzsche

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

“Beware of those who weep with realization, for they have realized nothing.” By: Carlos Casteñeda

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Quote paraphrased from “Battle Cry” By: Jason Wilson

the hook-up counter-culture

InCels are emotional imbeciles.
smooth talkers are perverts.
watch out for these degenerates—
they’re both after the farmer’s daughters.

these half-witted rustlers,
pretending to be city slickers—
can’t even afford a cow,
yet they want the milk for free.

no scruples on the right,
lacking modesty on the left—
creates toxic femininity
and enables toxic masculinity.

fatherhood requires discipline
and motherhood—determination;
cowgirls take care of your reputation
because these urban cowboys won’t.

Spanish Translation

la contracultura del ligue

célibes involuntarios son imbéciles.
los charlatanes son pervertidos.
cuidado con estos degenerados—
ambos van tras la hijas del granjero.

Estos cuatreros medio tontos,
también se creen muy listos,
ni siquiera pueden comprar una vaca,
pero quieren la leche gratis.

falta de escrúpulos en la derecha
y falta de modestia en la izquierda—
permite la feminidad tóxica,
y fomenta la masculinidad tóxica.

la paternidad requiere disciplina
y la maternidad—determinación;
Cuidado con tu reputación,
porque estos urbanos no lo harán.

Por: ElRoyPoet © 2023

Warning this video contains adult relationship themes

The Lie That’ll Destroy Women For Generations | Jordan Peterson

“Perhaps you’ve come across the term ‘toxic masculinity’ before. If so, you might know this concept describes the ways society’s gender-based expectations for men can breed unhelpful characteristics and behaviors, including aggression, difficulty expressing emotions, and excessive self-reliance.
But psychologists and researchers have also started to consider a similar topic, ‘toxic femininity.’ In a nutshell, this term describes the potentially negative impact of society’s standards for women […]
The definition of the term can vary slightly, depending on the source. A common anti-feminist misconception suggests it means using ‘feminine’ qualities to manipulate men. Yet most experts agree toxic femininity involves restricting your behavior to fit stereo-typically feminine traits that men supposedly find pleasing.
Toxic femininity can affect your health and well-being in many ways by increasing stress levels, sabotaging your sense of identity, contributing to a feeling of powerlessness, and leading to unhealthy relationships… Excerpt from Toxic Femininity, Explained—Plus, Tips to Overcome This Mindset

Commentary: The hardest lesson every young adult has to learn is that they are not the main character in everybody’s story. You are the protagonist of your own story, and all things considered, you were the main character in your enabling parent’s story, but now that you’ve grown up, you’re not. So no matter how much you want to be the main character in somebody’s story, your only fooling yourself, because until you are in a legitimate, committed family relationship, your wishful thinking doesn’t really matter to anybody.

Why Young Men Feel Alienated in the U.S.

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Quote paraphrased from “Battle Cry” By: Jason Wilson

America’s epidemic of loneliness: The raw material for fascism

“Sensuality often hastens the ‘Growth of Love’ so much that the roots remain weak and are easily torn up.” By: Friedrich Nietzsche

“Beware of those who weep with realization, for they have realized nothing.” By: Carlos Casteñeda

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Bible, Proverbs 31:10-13

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” 2 Corinthians 6:14

“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18

Toxic Relationships

Life is not about being happy,
it’s about being good,
but you can—try to be happy—
while being good.

However you can’t be happy—
while trying to be bad,
it doesn’t work that way,
you’re only fooling yourself.

And if you think—
you’re being slick,
karma will eventually find you out,
and settle the score.

By: ElRoyPoet © 2023

Warning this video contains adult relationship themes

America’s epidemic of loneliness: The raw material for fascism

Commentary: The number one mistake women make, when they begin a romance, is to allow their old failed relationships to have a voice in the courtship—when they do, their new relationship is doomed. Emotionally stable guys on the other hand, don’t suffer from these tendencies.
Could that be the reason why there are so many “InCels”—because there are too many damaged women in America? Is there a correlation between the number of loose women—and loser guys in the community? In other words, it’s a losing proposition to start off with, and then the mutual disgust and contempt sets in, leading to cynicism and rejection. The modern cliché: “Only the lonely can play”, basically means that if you’re a player, you’re destined to remain a swinger all of your life.

The Simple Reason You Struggle With Women | Jordan Peterson

“Mrs. Eberstadt has written, with an embarrassing accuracy, how the go-go ’60s planted the seeds of this devilish, soul-killing angst our society is writhing under today. Her book “Adam and Eve after the Pill”. It connects the dots from the tearing down of not just American institutions, but a righteous and wise way of life. “Tearing down” was 14 train stops ago. We are flirting with the suicide of one of the grandest experiments in world history. Like a country of homicidal maniacs, we tear and rip at morality. We lunge for its throat.
Rage rules America. The country stumbles about, screaming, cursing, tearing at its own eyes. Murder. Wickedness. Loss of a sense of true self and purpose. What I find simply insane is how a good portion of the alleged grown-up population embraces oppression, the crazy notion that a politician or bureaucrat will have our best interests at heart. We’re awash in intellectual stubbornness, stupidity and phantasmagoria—the belief that the most preposterous falsehood is true. Wisdom is an endangered species.
Modern souls we, we laugh at the corniness of holy book-thumping ancestors with their tedious thee’s and thou’s. We long ago stopped scoffing at an ancient word—wicked. Today, “wicked” is something spectacularly yet subtly cool. The origin of “wicked” is unknown, but, first accounts connect it to the Old English term for a witch, a sorcerer, someone or some thing that casts a spell. “Wicked” appeared 119 times in the 1611 version of the King James Bible. Today, in the 2001 English Standard version, it appears just 61 times. And yet, I’d place a small wager that all of us, no matter what our religion, spiritual path or complete indifference, can, at the end of the day, ask themselves a simple question: “What did I do that was wicked today?”
It’s a darn squirmy word. Even on my best of days, I can look back at the end to reflect and wince. Yup. I did—something—wicked. Small, perhaps. But, wicked nonetheless. Mrs. Eberstadt tirelessly writes that while we’ve always had our dark side and darker urges, as a society, we’ve pretty much abandoned our acknowledgement of the wicked. In fact, we unknowingly worship—wickedness.” Excerpt from John Boston | The Fatal Social Disease of the Sexual Revolution

“Sensuality often hastens the ‘Growth of Love’ so much that the roots remain weak and are easily torn up.” By: Friedrich Nietzsche

“Beware of those who weep with realization, for they have realized nothing.” By: Carlos Casteñeda

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Quote paraphrased from “Battle Cry” By: Jason Wilson

“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Bible, Genesis 2:18

“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Proverbs 31:10-13

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” 2 Corinthians 6:14

“For this you know, that no whore-monger, unclean person, nor selfish man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.” Ephesians 5:5

He Ruined Her For Everybody

Life is not about being happy,
it’s about being good,
but you can—try to be happy—
while being good.

However you can’t be happy—
while trying to be bad,
it doesn’t work that way,
you’re only fooling yourself.

And if you think—
you’re being slick,
karma will eventually find you out,
and settle the score.

By: ElRoyPoet © 2023

Warning this video contains adult relationship themes

America’s epidemic of loneliness: The raw material for fascism

Commentary: The number one mistake women make, when they begin a romance, is to allow their old failed relationships to have a voice in the courtship—when they do, their new relationship is doomed. Emotionally stable guys on the other hand, don’t suffer from these tendencies.
Could that be the reason why there are so many “InCels”—because there are too many damaged women in America? Is there a correlation between the number of loose women—and loser guys in the community? In other words, it’s a losing proposition to start off with, and then the mutual disgust and contempt sets in, leading to cynicism and rejection. The modern cliché: “Only the lonely can play”, basically means that if you’re a player, you’re destined to remain a swinger all of your life.

The Simple Reason You Struggle With Women | Jordan Peterson

“Sensuality often hastens the ‘Growth of Love’ so much that the roots remain weak and are easily torn up.” By: Friedrich Nietzsche

“Beware of those who weep with realization, for they have realized nothing.” By: Carlos Casteñeda

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Quote paraphrased from “Battle Cry” By: Jason Wilson

“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Bible, Genesis 2:18

“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Proverbs 31:10-13

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” 2 Corinthians 6:14

“For this you know, that no whore-monger, unclean person, nor selfish man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.” Ephesians 5:5

Chasing My Soulmate

Infatuation

I wish I would’ve never met her! When I was a boy, we lived in a house with a big back yard. One night, I had a dream that I was running out the back door chasing an angel—who appeared to be about the same age as me, and as I chased her, she seemed to be floating away and the faster I ran, the farther away she got, until I ran into the back gate. I was left crying because we were both reaching out to each other—I saw her sad face as she floated away into the clouds and then I woke up. I wonder to this day if I had reached her, would she have taken me to heaven, instead of leaving me behind, to endure this hell?

Obsession

How do I forget it, even though it only happened for a moment? I didn’t want to wake up this morning because you were in my dreams with that same unreadable face, that I can’t erase. It feels like my heart is being stepped on, while it burns. Why do I still feel this way, as if I couldn’t be any more broken? I know I’m alive, but you want to finish me off. I see my life ending, I tried to do the right thing, to walk away with a sad smile and forgive and forget, but you consume my thoughts, like a demon trying to steal a soul, that’s already dead and not worth anything. I don’t know what to do, I wish I had never told you, that I loved you.

Delusion

After the heartbreak, you’re humbled; the pain slows you down; and your spirit is gone. It’s funny how I think that I’m okay now, but I’m not! When you’re alone, your hurt is all you got and feeling something is better than nothing, but why would I still want to feel broken? It’s odd how smiling and laughing, comes more freely now. I’m not wondering so much, not bingeing so much and when I’m talking to someone else, you’re not on my mind anymore. Can heartbreak save a life, before you came, I didn’t care. Now I want to live and even though it seems, like it’s been years. I’m grateful for that moment, thank you for making me cry, because I haven’t shed happy tears for the longest time. I’m sorry for being the wrong man for you, but like I’ve said over and over again, I will move on. Now I know better, that you should never tell a friend that you love her. The life I used to live was fast, like as if I was running out of time, but you brought good into my life and I have been trying to do better. Like you used to say, it’s crazy how somebody can change you from a distance. Today was okay, I will work some more tomorrow and it goes on. I believe that I’m going to be okay and I hope I will.

Consolation

People are interesting, the human mind will never be understood, new knowledge is yet to be discovered, every day we learn something different. Some people can take the world by the hand and have it all, except for love. However people that are in love are the worst off, because they are willing to give it all away for unrealistic love. But if anybody finds real love they are on a natural high; an adrenaline rush; lost in the sauce; gone with the wind. I never believed it until now, that love is the best drug, because I would use it, to take advantage, but now it uses me. Life can also be silly, but you got to love it, otherwise it can become toxic, its a hard life, nothing is guaranteed. Life is a blessing that you may never truly understand, some people have it all without knowing, something like winning the lottery. Accomplishing everything in life isn’t satisfying any more, so many people are lost in their imagination, that they can’t see the good things around them, but by then it’s too late. There aren’t too many second chances for love anymore.

By: DavidPoet, 1981-2021

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The Simple Reason You Struggle With Women | Jordan Peterson

“Fearlessness is what love seeks,” Hannah Arendt wrote in her magnificent early work on love and how to live with fear. “Such fearlessness exists only in the complete calm that can no longer be shaken by events expected of the future […] Hence the only valid tense is the present, the Now.”
This notion of presence as the antidote to fear and the crucible of love is as old as the human heart, as old as the consciousness that first felt the blade of anticipatory loss pressed against the exposed underbelly of the longing for connection. Excerpt from The Four Buddhist Mantras for Turning Fear into Love

“To love without knowing how to love, wounds the person we love. To know how to love someone, we have to understand them. To understand, we need to listen […] Understanding someone’s suffering is the best gift you can give another person. Understanding is love’s other name. If you don’t understand, you can’t love!” Excerpts from “To love without knowing how to love wounds the person we love.”

“Who is good, if he knows not who he is? And who knows what he is, if he forgets that things which have been made are perishable, and that it is not possible for one human being to be with another always?” Excerpt from Epictetus on Love and Loss: The Stoic Strategy for Surviving Heartbreak

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Quote paraphrased from “Battle Cry” By: Jason Wilson

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

 

Finding Your Helpmate

In the battle of the sexes there are winners and losers and if you can’t command respect from the onset, you don’t stand a fighting chance. Even thought modern women feign that they want their prospective mate to only bring polite manners to the table, at the end of the day, all that hype goes out the window, when they fall for the smooth talker who can wield power over them, via looks, notoriety, money or domination. That’s why it’s so important, that young women are taught by their parents to not yield to their biological instincts, otherwise they will end up alone, bitter and cynical—if they allow themselves to be disrespected by modern barbarians who are only interested in toying with their emotions and then tossing them out to the trash heap of losers.

By: ElRoyPoet, 2023

Warning this video contains adult relationship language

Top 3 viewer comments:

  1. “I was in a beautiful relationship. I shared with her, some of my insecurities as the relationship grew deeper, however that eroded her interest in me over time. She had been an amazing partner and friend up to that day? After that turn of events, I sat down with my mom and explained to her what had happened to us, she immediately told me: ‘that I had made a huge mistake, and that I should now be mature enough to know, that you never share your insecurities or weaknesses with a girl, no matter how much love you believe exists in the relationship, she’ll lose interest, if she’s a good girl, or use it against you, if she’s a bad one’. Advice from a woman that had decades of successful marriage with my dad. Ignore all those female dating coaches that tell you to be emotionally open, share your pain, etc. I found out the hard way, that a man is absolutely never supposed to show vulnerability in front of women, because they just don’t understand!”
  2. “She is challenging him, that’s disrespectful to him. Why should anyone be entitled to challenge anyone, if not to shame or disregard his opinion, values and ideas. If he allows her to challenge him, she wouldn’t care about, what he has to say and wouldn’t even try to understand why he thinks that way. Because he will say whatever she wants to hear and will become submissive. She will be the one leading the conversation and ultimately the relationship to its end, when she looses interest in him.”
  3. “Young women are hard-wired to procreate and become wives and mothers. However young men need to be trained to become leaders, husbands and dads. If the couple is not faithful to each other and their gender roles, the nuclear family melts down and the community as a whole suffers from the fall-out.”

Commentary: The hardest lesson every young adult has to learn is that they are not the main character in everybody’s story. You are the protagonist of your own story, and all things being even, you were the main character in your enabling parent’s story, but now that you’ve grown up, you’re not. So no matter how much you want to be the main character in somebody’s story, your only fooling yourself, because until you are in a legitimate, committed family relationship, your wishful thinking doesn’t really matter to anybody.

Jordan Peterson’s Message to Young People

“When a man cannot introspectively confront his negative thoughts and emotions, he will always be conquered by them, communicating without composure and hurting all those whom he loves.” Quote paraphrased from “Battle Cry” By: Jason Wilson

“Beware of those who weep with realization, for they have realized nothing.” By: Carlos Casteñeda

“In every encounter, we either give life or we drain it; there is no neutral exchange.” By: Brennan Manning

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” Bible, 2 Corinthians 6:14

“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18

Happy Old Year!

“I’m grateful for all the Christians—who have shared their light with me, all these past years, so that mine, wouldn’t dim. I’m thankful for all the non-believers—who have tolerated my little light to shine upon them, too. I pray for all—who have received “the Light Of Christ” to also find gratitude in their hearts.” By: ElRoyPoet, 2022

Commentary: In order “to take a leap forward”, I must acknowledge that I have a past. In order “to be born again”, I need to accept that I was dead in sin. It takes courage to progress, you must come to the sad realization that your life is stagnant and going nowhere, you must admit that you’re a fraud—who is just trying to “keep up appearances”. We need to learn from history, even to the point of being grateful for all those ordeals we’ve had to endure. Only then can we appreciate all the work Jesus and His Disciples; and our fore fathers did, on our behalf. Can you imagine what our lives would’ve been like, if we didn’t have the Bible and the Constitution to help us govern ourselves? Heaven forbid!

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” Bible, Psalm 119:105

Patterns of Light: The Light of Christ; Discerning Light; Spirit of Revelation.

“I have come into the world as a light, so that no one who believes in me should stay in darkness.” John 12:46